Rt. Revd. Alexander
Chibuzo Ibezim (PhD) is the Anglican Bishop of Awka Diocese. In the following
interview with the Coordinator of the Association of People Living with Sickle
Cell Disorder, Edward Aisha, he reveals the stance of the Anglican Communion on
genotype marriage counseling, pseudo-NGOs and related issues. Enjoy it.
Research has it that, despite the
fact that we now live in an information age, babies with sickle cell anemia are
still being born. How do you react to this and what is the church doing to stem
this tide?
We in the
church make sure that, as part of the counseling before marriage, we educate
the intended couples on the dangers of going ahead to marry when they are
compatible genotype-wise. Because it is better to make sure that the person you
are about to marry is somebody that is compatible. Marriage is all about
relationship and the end product of marriage is children. Unless it is a
marriage where children are not wanted, then there is no need to worry about
sickle cell. But you know that people these days are blind about love. Still,
in the same marriage, you say ‘for better, for worse; for richer, for poorer.’
But after counseling people, we still leave them to decide what they want to
do. So, that is why in the church you still see that despite the fact that that
they pass through the institutional counseling sessions, people still say, ‘I
love that girl, I will marry her,’ and they end up producing sicklers.
Is the Anglican church aware that
there is a law prohibiting people from getting married if they are not
compatible?
Of course,
we are aware of that but one thing is to make laws and another thing is for
people to obey them. The clergy cannot follow them to their bedrooms to force
them, especially if they had done the traditional marriage. Love is sometimes
above the law and people do what they feel God led them to do. The problem is
more prevalent here in the developing countries. It is not like that in the
developed worlds. There, people are more cautious.
One of the major challenges of sickle
cell patients is that of stigmatization, both from immediate family members and
the general public. How is the church helping to correct people’s wrong
perception of sickle cell carriers?
Well, the
issue of stigmatization is an issue I am just hearing for the first time. Those
who are sicklers in our midst are not being discriminated against. I’m sure. If
it happens in other places, it is very strange. People suffering from such
diseases are not outcasts.
Many folks have hidden behind the name –
Sickle cell foundation, to rip off the gullible well- meaning members of the
public, when their foundation makes no impact whatsoever on those living with
sickle-cell anemia, how does his lordship react to this trend?
Our
society, I’m sorry to say, is lawless; where people take advantage of other
people’s predicament. I was passing somewhere the other day and I saw somebody
with a very gory tumor being carried about by some healthy folks as they
appealed to passer-bys’ sentiments for alms. Such a person is not supposed to
be on the road. And it is people that sponsor such. Where are our social workers? So people that
do such things are crooks and GOD WILL JUDGE THEM.
Recently, people living with sickle cell
anemia have decided to take the bull by the horn by going about more intensive
sensitization project, starting from Anambra state. How can the church partner
with them in realizing this cause?
When
genuine ones come around, we shall see how to support them because some of
sicklers are our church members. We have our welfare department that critically
examines and sees to the aiding of such organizations.
One of the prime suspects that runs Sickle cell Foundation Nigeria, has
been contacted by a reporter and from his response it was gathered that he
neither has offices in the South-east, nor representatives, yet he added the
prefix ‘Nigeria’ to his foundation. It was also gathered that he has collected
some multiple millions from the federal government and yet he has not impacted
on the lives of sickle cell patients. How would you react to this?
Not
only the church, but the government should step in. The church is not a law
enforcement agency. But we cannot close our eyes to such things. There are many
other ways people come up with fake things as if they are the real. That is why
NGOs have multiplied. Someone called me the other day saying his organization
wants to give me a leadership award. I told him that I don’t need the award
because I know from experience that if I indicate interest, he would say the
award costs 300000 or something like that. An award you pay for, is it a
genuine award? When you award somebody, you should reward him too. So, the government should investigate people
who want to register NGOs to ascertain their credibility and integrity.,
because NGO is a ministry and a serious affair.
Any Final words?
Well,
I wish to applaud the effort of the initiators of this association of sickle
cell patients. I also want to say kudos to the wife of the Executive Governor
of Anambra state, whom I have learnt is also supporting the association. i wish
to encourage the association to keep up the good fight and know that we are
praying for them and would always be available to support them in however way
we can. I call on all well-meaning Nigerians to assist this association to
achieve their noble aim which will be for the benefits of our society in
general.
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